So sorry for your loss, though you dumped your kid when he was 3. Really? What Mom doesn’t fantasize about that? You know what, I dumped my kid when he was 14 at a military academy. He was a little sh*thead too, too smart for middle school, so he flunked the 8th grade. Well darn. Second mortgaged our home, and sent his sorry smart ass to military boarding school. Guess what? He’s alive today. AND a productive citizen, AND he gave me grandchildren. Go. Away. Bitch.